Here is the advice from 50 women over 50 for how to beat loneliness and find more friends.
- Carol: Take a class -- cake decorating or medieval history -- it doesn't matter.
- Maggie: Volunteer at your humane society. Dog and cats love kisses!
- Susan: Let's go to a silly movie.
- Michele: Call me and let's get together. Let's make a play date!
- Heather: You are my friend. I am here for you.
- Barbara: Let's go for walk, get some coffee and chat about your interests.
- Connie: Let's play some games together.
- Linda: Step outside your front door and volunteer! I'll come with you.
- Judith: Why don't you try meditation or yoga?
- Arlene: Let's go for a coffee and chocolate cake.
- Raine: Join a walking group or a gym. It helps. I know I've been there.
- Barbara: Join a lively church or community group.
- Angela: Look at yourself in the mirror and say "I love you."
- Millie: Go to a concert and talk to the person sitting next to you.
- Patricia: Meet up for a coffee/tea and chat.....try meetup.com.
- Christine: Join the Y. Helps stress and you can make friends there.
- Laura: Don't stay inside; force yourself to get out of your house.
- Elena: Join a book club.
- Angela: Pamper yourself, wear something glam, or waft around in a housecoat.
- Edie: I'm coming over right now!
- Bernadette: Make friends with yourself first.
- June: Come over for a cuppa!
- Millie: Go shopping! Indulge yourself -- be frivolous!
- Claire: You can call me anytime 24/7.
- Pauline: Walk every day.
- Paulette: Learn something new -- get busy!
- Gillian: Don't be ashamed of loneliness.
- Hélène Anna: Get busy with fun projects; make gifts you can give to friends.
- Margaret: Go to a café and knit a scarf for Knit for Peace.
- Margie: Pull up your big girl panties, take positive actions! (Said with a smile.)
- Linda: To get friends, be friendly. To get a smile, give one.
- Karen: Start a conversation with a stranger.
- Maryann: Go to Starbucks and offer to join someone sitting alone.
- Kathleen: Learn to dance, learn Spanish, and try something for the first time.
- Marilyn: Get a four-legged friend.
- Patricia: What sports to you love? Can you teach me?
- Judith: Come see me, we'll have coffee and talk about your dreams!
- Linda: Remember my friendly voice is only a phone call away.
- Patricia: Be grateful for all the positives in your life.
- Jenny: Join a theatre group or art class.
- Maria: Jump on a bus and go somewhere you've never been before.
- Judith: Reconnect with your old friends form high school, university or work.
- Patricia: Build friendships with men even if you don't want to date.
- Joan: Clarify your purpose in life and pursue it with passion.
- Anna: Start writing a journal or a blog
- Mary: Think about downsizing and figure out what is important.
- Helen: Consider shared housing like Golden Girls Network.
- Vivienne: Make sure you are not depressed -- if you are get some help.
- Su: Go on a group tour.
- Adriane: Eat chocolate.
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